I opened Tinder looking for love. Tinder suggested this boy, and I liked him the moment I set my eyes on him. We conversed, and it was going quite well, but meanwhile, he claims to be the busy type. Due to my traumatic past, I hardly trust men. So I did something stupid: I created a WhatsApp account and decided to have a chat, not to stalk him but to understand how “busy” this guy is. He found out it was me through Truecaller, and he was pissed. A week passed by after apologizing seriously, and he decided to listen. Since then, I’ve been the one doing more of the calling and texting. I got tired of the one-sided energy and decided to leave him alone.
Most times we won’t talk for months, but at the end of the day, we still find ourselves back in each other’s DMs. I already fell in love with this guy, so I don’t know on his part if it’s a sex conversation he finds interesting, but commitment talks, he is mute or he ignores me for months, then he comes back again like nothing happened. We haven’t had sex, and to this date, we haven’t. But I’m still confused. If I bring up the sex talks, he portrays it like it’s me alone who is asking for it. Meanwhile, this guy said, if he wants it, he can get it. I’m confused about what this guy wants. Please, I need your advice.
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