Growing up, I’ve always wanted a child so early. I love kids a lot, and I always dream of having one to myself. I’m 23 years old; I graduated 4 years ago, working and doing well for myself. I have been planning it for a long time, so I tracked my ovulation and had s£x, yet it didn’t work, and then I tried again. I finally got pregnant. I couldn’t explain the joy in my heart. I know society would judge me for not getting married or being a single mom. I birthed my daughter 1 year ago, and for the first time in my life, I feel comfortable; I don’t feel lonely anymore. All through my pregnancy, I was so happy. Looking at her every day makes me happy.
My family was against it at first, but now it seems like she brought back lost happiness to my family. If I see some comments saying so many things about single mothers, I just laugh. Not all single moms are suff£ring. Trust me, they are having their best lives, especially those who have just one or two kids, as long as they are financially comfortable. Imagine coming back from work stressed and coming home to see your beautiful, happy child. Before I got pregnant, I made researches. Some said being a single mom is a burden. Well, I didn’t feel a single burden because I’m not broke. Marriage is not even in my long-term plans or goals now.
I have two suitors that want to marry me and have my child too, but honestly, I’m not ready. If I eventually get married in the future, that’s fine. I’d just do it to please my parents or if I love him and want to be with him. Finally, leave people to make their own decisions. Don’t teach people how to live their own lives; focus on yours. Everyone came to this world for a mission. It’s not everything that’s marriage, marriage. Last last, it’s not everyone that’ll get married.
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