If you have a good mom, please cherish her and adore her. They are always the best and you’re lucky to have her. My mom— I mean, my mother—acts like I was adopted, and I regret sharing some things with her, tbh. I felt if she knew about my relationship it would make everything easier, but no, it just made everything worse! Her interference always complicates matters. Imagine a mother saying, “You guys broke up, what is your gain from the relationship? Nothing is in your account. A relationship, not even marriage o!” Am I meant to pack gold from it? I don’t complain about his financial capabilities. He has done a lot—things my parents couldn’t do. He gave me money to acquire a skill, bought things for me. For a year, I was in and out of hospital because of ulcer and my menstruation. He was the one there for me and all of that. Yes, nobody is perfect. He has his flaws too. I’m not an angel either and we are still learning. But instead of her remembering his good sides, she always makes sure his bad sides are known.
This is a decision for my future. I’ll forgive him over and over if I can because he was there for me when no one else was. He also did a lot of things for her, my dad, and siblings. But she chose to neglect that part. Now she’s acting like an obstacle in my relationship. I’m trying to hide my relationship from my family till we get married officially. Just cherish your mom if she’s a good mother. I didn’t even say half of what she has done to me, but it’s a story for another day. God willing, I’ll marry him and I’ll give birth to beautiful children as well, and my marriage will be fruitful and lasting. Those that said I don’t have shame and probably I was charmed will live to see the beauty of it. Amen! Cherish your mom if she’s a good mother. I wish I had one too.
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