Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I broke up sometime this year. It was really hard for me because I never wanted any of it. We broke up because we were always fighting. He was always insulting me, hurting me, a lot that I cannot even start typing. In all this, I know I still had my fault. So we broke up for about 3 months. During those 3 months, I was still seeing him because he was always calling me to come and see him, but he was always talking to me rudely until one night that I decided to stop entertaining him. During those times, I met a guy. He was everything I prayed for, treated me like a queen, and was ready to do everything for me. But because of the love I had for my ex, I pushed the guy away. I felt like I didn’t deserve him and all that. We met online, but I traveled to meet him in his state and it was the best time of my life. I let that boy slip off my hand. My ex kept begging me to come back, used everyone that I know, his family too, to beg me. I stood my ground and told him no. The boy I met online asked me out when I went to his state, but I declined and told him I needed to settle some things first. Immediately I got back, I went to see my ex and the guy I met online found out and he was very hurt.
He knew I was going to see him, but he didn’t know I would sleep over. During those times, my ex kept begging me, so I said I should give him a chance, and I stayed with him for 3 days. He insulted me again. He said it was because he was jealous because he saw a call on my phone, and I was like, how did you know it was this person (the person I met online)? And I was like, thank God I haven’t agreed to date you (my ex). So I agreed to date the boy I met online. Two weeks into the relationship, I was missing my ex and he kept begging me. I didn’t tell him I was already in a relationship because I didn’t want to hurt him. So I kept messing up my new relationship and it was hurting me. Then I just told the boy the truth that I still love my ex, that’s why I have been messing up. He was hurt, then he blocked me. I went back to my ex. He surprised me with gifts, said he was sorry, then we started dating again. He has done a lot of things since we started dating but I just ignored because I do not want to start regretting. The problem now is that he found out I went to see the boy I met online during our breakup, and he’s making an issue out of it. What should I do? Please no insults, please.
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