Is this a red flag? I am a happily married Muslim man. I consider myself devout and I really love my wife, but she attracts too much attention to herself. I don’t like it at all. Even with big abaya and hijab, men still cater to her. Even when she was pregnant with twins sef, they’d just do things for her—random stuff and gifts without her asking. I know she is not enticing them. She is an angel, really. She listens and obeys me. I am just too jealous. What if they collect her from me? I take care of her well. She doesn’t lack anything at home. I am not rich, but I am comfortable. Our house is fine and spacious; there is food, I got her housemaid and all. I talked to my imam, and he said I should make her a niqabi, that some women are like that, that she is special and blessed. I thought my wife wouldn’t mind since she is usually at home. She doesn’t like to go out. So, I sent her those videos of women becoming eleha.
She ignored it. Today, we were cuddling and watching TikTok videos. My fyp is filled with Islam-related videos. One of those eleha marriage videos came up, and she just used her hand to block the profile. I was so shocked. I pretended not to know, but then she did it three times when she saw a niqabi and Alfas with big turban. Is she pretending to be Muslim? She wasn’t born Muslim. I thought she was the first time I met her, but she just likes modest clothes. I broke up with her but went back because I was in love. What can I do? She prays, she knows Arabic fluently, even my ibeji speak it combined with English and Yoruba. I too love my twins. I want her to become a niqabi. I want to spoil her and cater to her desires. Even imagining her in full veil is making my oko (d!ck) hard. Kai! My heart is paining me.
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