I had a male friend; we were so close that I could sleep at his place or mine without anything happening. We knew each other so well that if I was broke, he helped me, and if he was broke, I helped him out. One fateful day, he messaged me saying, “I thought we were friends. Can’t believe all that I heard you said about me.” I was confused because I couldn’t remember saying anything about him to anyone. I started messaging him, and he refused to reply. I realized he blocked me. I used my other WhatsApp, but he didn’t reply. I called him and spoke to his friends. I was pissed because I never knew what he was talking about, and even if someone told him something, I thought with how close we were, he should have confronted me and asked, but he never did. How could he just believe a random person?
I tried a couple more times last year, but he still snubbed me. I made up my mind to leave him alone because I had tried my best. Last Christmas, he sent me a message wishing me a Merry Christmas, but when I replied and asked him if he could talk to a bad person, he didn’t reply again. Now, this year, I saw him a couple of times, and we both acted like we didn’t know each other. Then, recently, he came into a room I was in, and when he came, he stood, and we smiled at each other. Then I quickly removed my face and acted like he wasn’t there anymore. Since then, I have been feeling like I should send a DM again because I really valued our friendship, but my friends said I have tried, so I should leave him in his pride. Please, what should I do, Rantandtalkz family?
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