Rantandtalkz family, I’m very confused right now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. I was away for 2 years, but I’m back to him now. Since I came back, it has been amazing, I would say. Now, the thing is, while dating, whenever my period is late, I assume I’m pregnant and tell him. He will give me money to abort, but I later get my period and keep the money. This has happened like 4 times, and he has always given money for it, even though I know I’m not pregnant. Last year, I wanted the baby because I felt I was ready. So, I told him I was pregnant (note: he is very much okay with me keeping the babies, I’m just not okay with it).
So, I tried getting pregnant and he felt I was pregnant, so he was coming inside me all through a month, but I didn’t conceive. I went to the hospital because I had symptoms, but it was never a positive result. The doctor said I was okay. I was sad because how can my boyfriend be releasing inside me, but I’m not getting pregnant? After 3 months, I had to lie to him that I lost the baby. Now, my fear is maybe my boyfriend is impotent, but he doesn’t know. In his mind, he got me pregnant all this while. Ladies, try letting guys come inside you, most guys are just impotent. What do you guys think I should do in this situation?
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