I have been dating this guy for the past 2 years and we planned to get married this year. This guy has been a cheater right from the beginning of our relationship but he’s always begging and promising to change. I stopped checking his phone for the sake of my mental health, but last week a notification popped up on his phone which made me curious to check. I found out this guy has over 8 other girlfriends aside from me and he was even telling one of them he can’t get married to me, that he loves the girl and not me, and he’s waiting for the perfect time to dispose me off. I forwarded all the chats to my phone and videos of him screen recording his other girlfriends while they were naked. I stopped talking to him and I stopped picking his calls and responding to his messages ‘cause I’m planning on leaving the relationship silently without confronting him about the things I saw, but this guy has been posting derogatory things about me on his WhatsApp status and that’s because he doesn’t know I’ve seen those things on his phone.
This same guy lodged another woman in a hotel while I was in the hospital for my surgery. I really don’t want to talk to him about the things I saw, but me seeing his status is forcing me to speak out and tell him the things I saw. I have over 3 nude videos of him and his other girlfriends. I feel like I might break down any moment from now and I’ve been having a very heavy chest pain. I really don’t have anyone to talk to. I don’t know if I should confront him or just break up silently for the sake of my mental health.