I am 35 years old and married, but sometimes I feel like giving up. Sometimes I feel okay. I earn approximately ten thousand to fifteen thousand dollars a month because I run a business, and my husband is not working. It is tiring most of the time. We live very well, but most times, I’m not happy because I get tired of being the one spending all the money as my husband is not working. I’ve tried several times to tell him to get a job, but he keeps saying the pay is too small.
He knows how much I earn, and seeing him earning low makes him unwilling to work. I love him, but sometimes I feel like getting a divorce. The problem now is: how will I manage myself with the 2-year-old baby we have and the unborn one, as I’m currently pregnant with our second child? He keeps saying I shouldn’t worry, that he will surprise me one day, but for how long? 😩To even make him happy, I pay him $2,000 every month. But still, he spends that on his family, and I still have to use my money to take care of everything at home.
My main issue now is that we are from two different countries, and I have buildings in my country. He wants to invest in building also in his country as I am doing in mine. I have about 12 apartments in my country that I rent out and I’m currently building a new one. However, he is disturbing me too much to do the same in his country, but I am scared. What if something happens tomorrow and we divorce? How do I cope with this?
Does that mean I lose everything in his country? We don’t even live in either of our countries. 😩😩 Please, I need advice: should I go ahead and invest in the building in his country as I am doing in mine, or tell him no? Even our lavish traditional and white wedding—I sponsored everything because I love him so much. Though he is good and has been a supportive husband, it’s not with money, as he doesn’t have it. If no, what can I tell him? Thank you.
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