Got into a long-distance relationship and it’s been a while I felt this way about someone. I believe our love was deep and we’d go hours talking on phone, I’m talking 5–8 hours a day. He made me so happy, it felt like we were meant for each other until a situation made us fall out. He did something to me and he kept trying to apologize and I blew things out of proportion and said something nasty about a friend, a female friend of his. I kind of body-shamed her. So after all was said and done, he decided to end things with me. He said I was disrespectful and toxic and he couldn’t deal. According to him, he wanted us to be still friends so we could maybe work things out in the future when he’s back in the country. For a week I made efforts to apologize and make it up to him. I was deeply remorseful and showed him that I was but he seemed adamant. I went as far as trying to reach out to a couple of friends to help me beg him, which he got pissed about (he’s a private person, I knew he wouldn’t like that), but I was hurting and I just did what I could to salvage the relationship. Trust me, I’ve never gone to this extent for any man before. I really loved him and I know he loved me too, he showed it while we were together.
He was a good man, he never used foul language and he never raised his voice at me. He made me so happy and I felt deeply connected to him. He was my best friend. At this point, tears are pouring down my eyes while typing this. Well, I just let him be. He checked up on me constantly about a week after the breakup, then he stopped and I let him be as well. We didn’t block each other though, and if you know how Snap works, we do keep streaks there per usual. One time, he even congratulated me on an achievement I posted. It’s been over a month now and I’m focusing on other things but deep down I still miss him. I’ve only been in love twice and he’s the second. I need advice from men in the house. Do y’all think we’ll find our way back to each other? Are we still going to work out? There’s no way he’s lost all feelings for me, right? I really pray we do. He was really my best friend yunno. I cried so much every day after the breakup, I couldn’t believe myself. I wish he follows this page, it would have been a way for me to show him how much I care.
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