This is how it started. Me and this guy started dating around 2023. Everything started on a good note, but we used to have misunderstandings and we would settle it. It happened that he had issues at his place of work around 2024, whereas his family needed to show up and the issue sorted. He introduced me to his mum as his girlfriend. We greeted and exchanged conversations and all. So after that day, I went to greet my boyfriend and we talked, and he mentioned someone said I am rude. I didn’t bother to ask who said so; I just said the person is mad, and he started acting cold towards me. After his body calmed, he later told me that it was his sister that told him that his mum said I’m rude. I was surprised that we didn’t even use up to one hour; how come she identified me as someone that is rude? Since then, our relationship has been up and down. It came to a point I let go of him around July 2024. I blocked his number and deleted it. So after like two months, he dm’d me on TikTok and begged me, and we started talking. He kept pursuing me to be his girlfriend, that he loves me and all.
Normal, he is a womanizer, but he gave me my respect 100 percent then. But I kept telling him I’m not interested in being his girlfriend anymore. So after the end of 2024, I started working where he was also working, and he was still on me. So we got back around February 2025. He started on a good note. We fight and fix. Around March, there was space at my place of work, and one of my friend’s sisters was looking for a job, and I secured the vacancy for her, only for me to find out my boyfriend and the girl were flirting. They both denied it, and my boyfriend said he can’t stoop so low to the girl’s level, but they never stopped flirting. But here is the real problem: I’m pregnant for him, and he is requesting me to abort, and I don’t want to. In some aspect, I want to; in some aspect, I don’t want to so I will be able to treat their f*ck up big time. I really need you guys’ advice. I will be in the comment section. I know some will judge me; I’m all ready for that because I dey judge myself already.
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