I’m a Northern guy from Adamawa who’s also a Christian. I met this girl when she was in camp and offered her my place to stay till she found hers. I never had any attraction towards this girl, she’s very beautiful but very plus size and I don’t like big girls at all. Also, this babe was always on her phone 24/7, she wouldn’t even go to her PPA most days. She’s very lazy. She’s neat body-wise but can’t do house chores. She’s an ajebutter to the core. Eventually, we started talking and I started to fall in love with her. I love her accent, she has this very polished English accent and her skin is like milk. Her smile can melt your heart away. She’s the only fat girl I ever considered. I eventually asked her out but she kept saying no. Her response was she likes me but she doesn’t like me enough to date me. I persisted but one thing about me, I cannot use my money to woo a woman and I guess she’s one of those materialistic girls. One thing led to another and I kissed her and it became a normal thing. She used to reject me which used to make me feel bad but eventually, she started accepting.
We became unofficially official but eventually, I got tired of her antics after a few weeks, she didn’t change her lazy ways, got so used to me driving her around and she’s very stingy. It just made me realize why she’s single. I got critical of her because I wanted her to grow but she felt I was always attacking her and she knows how to hold a grudge. She’s not proactive, doesn’t use her initiative and it’s annoying because she’s very intelligent. She’s so spoilt. She’s always demanding things from me and I always give it back to her that I’m not her father. She spends money recklessly and it’s so annoying. I just had to pull out. She moved out after slightly over a month because her place was ready. I know that she’s in love with me because she calls me every time she needs help. We had a power outage for over a month in my state and I have solar power in my house, so she came unannounced one night and gave a dumb ass reason for not calling that all her devices were dead that’s why she couldn’t call.
I Sha allowed her to stay and she left the next day. Now, I’m a well-respected elder in my church and my community, my church members or family members can just show up unannounced at my house. I’m also a virgin too. So, she came again unannounced to give the same weak ass excuse. So, something led to another that night and we almost had sex. I had to say no because no protection. The next day, she was supposed to leave but didn’t because she said her phone didn’t charge well. In the evening we started making out, and she was stroking my dick. I tried pulling her down to give me head but she refused, I persisted, even promising to buy her ice cream, and that’s when she got angry that, I was a big hypocrite and that does she looked like someone who could not afford ice cream for herself. That I’m a cheap man. This is someone who was pressuring me to get her ice cream the whole stay. She now made reference to when we had a conversation about a week ago where she’d told me why she really loved her ex and he’s the best guy she has ever had. That he’s very skilled with his tongue.
I found it disgusting that she was bragging about her ex to me despite the fact that nothing was going on between us. It felt as though she was making fun of my innocence. Anyway, I told her that I found head disgusting and that I could never do that with my wife, either give or receive. I found it really irritating that she was bringing up a conversation that we had a week ago and using it at this moment and even calling me a hypocrite. I asked her to leave my house. She started dressing up to leave, I now realized that it was dark and her house was super far away. I told her to stay till tomorrow morning, that it’s dangerous to leave at that time, I asked her this three times, and she acted like I wasn’t talking to her and walked out on me. She blocked me everywhere and I’ve not heard anything from her for over 2 months now.
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