So rant family, how una dey? This is my story. I met this guy last year, few months before my birthday. It was cozy, going on well. I’m not going to lie, I wasn’t balanced mentally—family trouble here and there—and he was right there. I was telling him how my shit has been going. Fast forward to Xmas, I went back home and I was exhilarated and got involved with one shady family that took me 2 months before I got back to my base. He kept calling to ask what was wrong. I couldn’t speak because I was ashamed. He warned me about it early, so I didn’t have the courage to tell him. I came back after the whole wahala and he broke up with me, saying I ghosted him and all, that we can still be friends but right now he’s done with the relationship. After much talking, I finally opened up to him about all the shit I went through in the East. He felt pity for me but still stood on his words about ending what we had.
Now baba say he wants to be friends. We’ve done it two times. He still does all those things he did when we were still dating—cares for me, pecks me, treats me well. Second time we had sex, nigga pressured me to get p!||s. When he finally opened up, he said he’s not comfortable with sex, said he’s scared. Go now, you no wan go. His main reason for breaking up is that since we started, it’s been drama from my end and we haven’t been pushing ourselves to be better, that he needs a push to go higher. Omo I love that guy o. Na just say my life was a mess when I met him and I’m trying to fix it, wanting him by my side. Rantz family, have I lost him? Can’t I win back his love? Why is he still hanging around? S€x e fear belle, but enjoy it with me, but I shouldn’t block him and we can’t be enemies. And he doesn’t want to waste my time. I just tire joor. Make una put mouth. Make I move on too and block him everywhere?
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