I’m 25 years old. I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 years. I showed this guy what it is to be loved, but he never appreciated it. He is toxic, a chronic cheater, and not a God-fearing guy. He lies a lot. Name all the bad behavior he has, he has it all. It got to a point where I couldn’t stand it. I had to break up with him because I couldn’t take someone like that to my parents. Someone who can spend his last kobo on weed. But I noticed the moment I left him, he was so broke that his friends thought I did something bad to him. The only help I always rendered each time he was broke was that I was always giving him my savings, but he never returned them back. Some months later, I started dating another guy. He is so caring, loving, peaceful, and God-fearing. He is actually everything a woman should pray for, and I love him so much.
He is a giver too, he spends on me each time he has. The way he looks out for me each time amazed me because my ex was never like this. I have been dating this new guy for close to 9 months, but things never really turn around for him. He is always complaining he is broke, and I hate to see him sad. The problem I’m having now is I have been wondering if I’m the cause of his brokenness. Maybe we are not meant to be together, because when I was with my toxic ex, everything was really going well for him. Please Rantandtalkz family, please. I want to know if I’m the source of his problem because I have been having that thought too much. Please advise me. I have been so prayerful about it though.
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