I got married to this guy after dating for 3 years. During the relationship, it’s been one cheating discovery or the other. And when we talk about it, it’ll be hard for him to apologize. Fast forward to after marriage, I was at my parent’s place for two months before I moved in with him. Two days ago, he slept off leaving his phone unlocked then I went through it and saw that he was cheating when I was at my parents’ place. This man is saying I should deal with it anyhow I can since I went ahead and searched his phone. He added that since the girls know they are side chicks and they’re comfortable with it, then he doesn’t have a problem.
I’m a very calm person who believes in talking this out but the more I try, the more he’s giving me a hard pill to swallow. He’s saying cheating is normal and there’s a difference between food and munchies. If he decides he wants to munch on snacks, there’s nothing wrong with it. I’m pregnant already. I can’t imagine having to raise a child in this kind of toxic thinking. I’ve always loved this guy but now I feel so stupid for loving this deep. How do I get my mind off this? In my condition, I’ve been so sad and teary regretting my actions of ignoring the red flags from the beginning.
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