I relocated abroad last year, while my boyfriend is in Nigeria. We’ve been in a relationship for a year and some months, but I’ve never really received anything from him aside from N5k, N2k—the most he ever gave me was N20k. We agreed to continue our relationship and he promised he would join me here soon. At the end of June, I met a guy online, who is also in the same country. He asked me out, and we started dating, but I told him that I already have a boyfriend in Nigeria.
He asked me to break up with him, and I lied, sending fake proof that I had ended things. In just three months, he’s spent a lot on me—enough that even my friends can attest to it. I now have five luxury and expensive hairs without asking him for any of them, and he also sent me money. The problem is, this spending isn’t new for him; he did the same for his ex, and a lot of other girls, even some prettier ones, are always asking him out, including popular TikTokers.
Long story short, someone who knows both guys sent a screen recording of my status to my boyfriend in Nigeria, so now he knows I’m dating someone else here. He asked me to break up with this new guy, though I still lied, saying I’m not dating anyone. Now, I’m planning to meet up with the guy here soon. What should I do?
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