I have lost my man to his baby mama, and I don’t know how it happened even after I tied him spiritually for almost a year. My man’s baby mama moved in with him sometime last year. But I was his number one. Note, that I am thick and busty, but she’s just slim with a normal body. My man would leave her and her 3-month-old baby and be with me. I stalked her everywhere till she finally found out about me. She didn’t bother, my man gave me the upper hand and never respected her. He wouldn’t eat her food or have $€x with her. If I call him, he runs to me. She finally left the house, she looked like his slave because she couldn’t please him. One night, I went through their chat, and to be honest, I was glad he maltreated her because she looked so expensive, with her hair and friends too. He stopped sending money to her monthly, but this girl was still living her life, flying planes. My friends will mock me that I no dey hot. It was so obvious he loved me compared to her and he even told her. Two days after she left, he invited me. I was so happy because I was back at my man’s house.
He did everything for me when I was with him. He would pick up my calls anytime even when she was there, take me out, and wouldn’t come home till the next morning. She would call or text, but he wouldn’t pick up. I was his number one, everyone knew us together. My problem started when she came to do something in the same town, she took an apartment worth lots of money. I asked my man if he didn’t send the money. I kept asking myself, only for my man to leave me at home and go see them, exactly how he was treating me. But I ignored it. Last year, in November/December, things became worse when he relocated. At first, he was always talking to me, and they didn’t stay together around December. They started staying together. If we were on a call, she walks in, he starts talking like I’m a guy, and it has never happened. Note, that he still sends me money. Later on, he started calling me only when he was out or she was not around.
Till she finally picked up my call for the first time. She sounded so calm and asked me to leave her husband, that I had tried owing him for a year plus, now he’s back with his family. Later, my man called and started blaming me, which has never happened, though he still sends money. He apologized, and I understood. I went back to the Cele Church, and they told me she didn’t tie him or lose him. Is it possible for someone to untie himself? He now posts her almost every day. I can’t call him again, don’t send money anymore, or text. Before, I was like his medicine, and this lady is slaying badly. If it were before, as soon as she picked it up, he would have changed it for her. Rather, he told me it was his fault and he was picking her over me. My people, I am finished. How will I pay my school fees? My sisters have been trying to settle us, but he just keeps hating me.
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