My ex reached out to me recently after being apart for 9 months. Our relationship lasted for 3 years, then he broke up with me. I just woke up one morning to this breakup text message. I was really heartbroken and begged him not to leave me, but he had his mind already made up. He even blocked me on all socials, so I had to accept it and move on. Recently, he reached out to me after 9 months of having no contact with each other. He said some things and explained why he had to leave. Well, he apologized and told me how he misses me every day. After talking for a while, we decided to link up. I went over to his place, and one thing led to another, and we had sex. I lowkey miss this guy shaaa; he’s so hot and knows how to please me so well. Well, I only decided to link up with him because I was kinda lonely and had nobody I was talking to at the moment.
Since 9 months we broke up, I haven’t had sex or dated any guy. I’m really not the type of girl with many guy friends; I hardly even go out. When he texted me, my body started to crave him again. I was very horny, and I knew the sex was going to happen. We’ve linked up twice, and we’ve been having mad sex. The problem now is, ever since we linked up, he’s been calling and texting me every day like we are in a relationship. Now he’s saying he wants us back together, he wants us to be in a relationship again. But I don’t want it. I’m not ready for the stress that comes with a relationship, and besides, I don’t want us to mess things up again the second time. I like the way we are now, friends. How do I tell him that I don’t want a relationship with him without hurting his feelings, and I don’t even know if I am doing the right thing for the fact that he’s an ex?
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