I need to know if there’s an ongoing trend/challenge with guys ghosting their babes lately (for 5/6 days ago). My boyfriend of a year has ghosted me for about 5 days now. I’ve cried and cried, I’ve called him several times, and messaged him too. I’m losing it, I almost screamed at work today. I even went to the restroom to cry 3-4 times. Anytime I remember what we shared, the promises he made to me, we never fought, neither did we argue. I don’t know what to think. When he later replied, he said he had done something that he was not proud of, and he was sorry, but he wouldn’t say it. Note: he addressed me by my name this time, there was no babe, baby, love.
I love this guy, I hope I won’t ment. I’m trying to console myself with whether he’s pranking me. Trust me, if the claim is actually true and he’s not pranking, it’ll be hard to survive. I’ve been fighting not to end it all since it happened. I’m getting teary again. I talked to someone close, and she said probably he impregnated someone, but I don’t see the reason to fear if you impregnate someone. He has refused to speak up, neither did he reach out to me. He’s back on all social media but never to my DM. I’m so sad, this guy never really got angry when we were dating, he was so cool. I’m in shock because I didn’t see this coming.
He kept saying, ‘You’re a good woman, and I don’t deserve you. I’m sorry, ‘you deserve the best and I’m far from it.’ I can’t bring myself to reason what actually went wrong. I’m pained, never caught him cheating. Rantandtalkz family, please help. I need suggestions on what could be wrong. I have 2 things in my head: either he impregnated someone or he’s leaving the country. I feel like ending it all, never going to fall in love again if God saves me from this. I hate men so much right now. I’ve cried so many times, I’m hurt. I invested a lot in this relationship. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m going nuts.
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