I saw the rant of the young lady who’s been feeding her man since ‘22 and I can relate on so many levels. I’ll try to keep this very short. So, my boyfriend went broke in November of 2019 and I’ve been doing everything since then. He’s 28 now and I’m 26 and seeing that rant earlier, I’ve realized that my feelings are valid. I got him a 13pro when the phone came out (I’m stupid, I know). We’ve lived together in my house in PH but I’m currently working on moving to Lagos and not telling him. I’ve paid the rent for next year in the ph house and I’ve also spoken with the landlord so he knows I’m leaving. I didn’t tell him the reason though. I want him to figure his life out ‘cause he’s obviously so comfortable watching me do everything. Countless of times, I’ve told him to get a job or something but his reply will always be “There are no jobs in Nigeria”.
Hello? What tf am I doing then? Abi I no get work?? And the thing is, I’m a hard worker so I can’t let myself stay broke for long ‘cause I’ll start feeling like I’ve failed in life. I’ve tried to leave him but baba no gree lol. I’ve never been spoilt by a man before and cheating is not for me. Anyway, I’ll stop here before I start to cry because I legit just wasted my years with him, honestly. Ps: Some of you might ask if I was not eating his money before he went broke and the answer is no, I wasn’t. I was supporting in everything so he didn’t do it alone even then. It was both of us. It is well sha. The moral of my story? If you’re feeding a man who is already comfortable in his situation, you better FLEE! Let me be your wake-up call.
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