I met this guy when I lost my dad, and things were crazily tough at home. He was willing to help. In the course of talking, I asked if he was married, and he said yes. I fell in love with his honesty, though I told him I wasn’t going to date him because he was married, but we could be friends. Months later, we started dating officially, and this guy has been amazing. We’ve been dating for three years now. I’m happy with the relationship, but sometimes I feel bad.
I don’t want to settle with a married man, and I don’t want to ruin another woman’s home. I want to break up with him, but I can’t because I’m scared I won’t get another relationship as beautiful as this (he’s my first). The only reason I’m still here is because of body count. I’m too scared to date someone else or even talk to anyone about it because I feel they’ll use it against me. I’m just 21, and I’m a beautiful young lady. I’m confused—should I keep dating him or what? Also, he’s not a Nigerian; he’s Togolese.
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