Around 2023, I broke up with my girlfriend because I caught her cheating with a guy in her school even though she knew the guy had a girlfriend. I was so pained and I met a girl around that time. Though we didn’t have a relationship because I told her I had someone and we were not in good terms, just not to get her hopes up, and we settled for FWB. But anytime we see each other, I always treat her like a girlfriend because I was new to that kind of life and I’m a handsome and loving guy that gets along with everyone. But she’s always asking, “What are we?” and I always told her we’re friends. Little did I know this girl was planning with her friend and a native doctor to tie me with a bead or something. It’s a curse. I overheard her talking about it on the phone, which she later confessed to. Even though I confronted her immediately, she denied it. But I stopped having sex with her since then. I don’t know if she got pregnant from our last sex because we didn’t use protection, but I told her to get the pills immediately the next day before she got home. But we had an argument the next day and she blocked me, so I didn’t know if she got the pill or not. We met again after a week or two because she needed money, but we didn’t do anything. The following week she told me she missed her period and was pregnant, which I also observed from her body and cravings the last time we met.
She said she needed money for a local abortion, which I gave her because I’m also not ready to be a father and she knows. Later she came up with an excuse that she wanted to do it at a hospital and asked for money, and I gave her. She came up with a story later that the pregnancy is twin and they could only abort one, one remains. This time I asked her to do a scan first and send me the result. The dates on the result were very wrong, which she said was a mistake from the hospital. Now I tried to take her to a hospital but she insisted and told me to give her the money for the last abortion and that our ways should never cross each other again, which I did. But she came up with another excuse a few weeks later that she couldn’t abort the pregnancy because she loved me and wanted to have a child with me. Omo I don’t even understand. First it was her granny who dreamt about her having an abortion and died. Later she said a friend advised her not to have the abortion but to take the money and move in with her.
And I told her I don’t have what it takes to be a father now. She said she will born the child whether I like it or not, besides there are kids who survived without a father. Now she has given birth and expects me to take responsibility for the child. Even her whole family has been disturbing me to show up. I guess she didn’t tell them we’re not dating or anything about the pregnancy. Me and my girlfriend got back together and let go of our past, but she already found out about this. I don’t know what to do anymore. This girl manipulated me and got a kid. She’s been texting me every day for child support despite everything that happened before the birth of the child. This girl is making me feel like an irresponsible guy while forcing a child on me, even though I tried to avoid it from the start. I’m so confused right now. Should I dump my girlfriend and focus on the child? But I feel like she won me after all. Or should I just keep building my life because I’m not sure my girlfriend is even loyal, especially after finding out someone got pregnant for me? Please I need your advice. I will be in the comment section. Make una no vex say e long.
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