I’m Chioma, 29 years old, and I stay in Ibadan. I’ve been in my current relationship for 6 years. We met when I was 24. I don’t know if I’m not meant to ask as a woman, but I feel like I need to be sure I’m not wasting my time, even though I feel he has wasted it already. I’ve asked my “well-to-do” boyfriend severally about when we’re settling down, but he never answers the question. Every time I ask, he avoids it. I think I should end the relationship, but I don’t want to start all over again because I don’t even have the energy to go through another talking stage. I also don’t want another body count. I wish he could be my last since he is my first man, but it seems like he doesn’t want to settle down.
I want to let him go, but I love him, and I’m scared of how I will cope without him. One thing that confuses me is that he gets jealous when he notices another man asking me out, and he starts giving me attitude. Even though he knows 💯 that I will let them know I’m in a relationship, as I’ve done severally, yet he still behaves that way. I’ve told him severally to tell me where we are heading, but he’s not talking. I’m thinking of starting another relationship because I don’t want to lose out, but what if he finds out and sees me as a cheat? I don’t want to hurt him at all because I love him. I’m confused and need your advice.
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