I’m (m) 26. I really love my girlfriend, but she’s using that as an opportunity to maltreat me. Imagine dating a girl for 4 years plus, and she’s still keeping her virginity based on the love I have for her, but I have cheated in the relationship 3 times, and she caught me and begged me. She agreed, and she forgave me. Mind you, I always told her I really love sex. In fact, sex is my therapy, but I end up dating a virgin. How come I won’t try to satisfy my urge? My body no be stone, but mind you, nothing on earth I can’t do for this girl. I always spoil her with gifts and money, and always be there for her, but she’s just acting weird since last year. She has wanted to break up with me like 3 times in space of December till now. She acts like she doesn’t give a fuck if the relationship between us collapses, and she’s from a very good family. She doesn’t have friends, not even one.
Her family never supports her in all her behaviors. I have tried to leave, but I always find it difficult to forget about her. In fact, I have tried to have another relationship, but I never for once loved anyone, but all the girls have been meeting none of them met up with the qualities I see in her. But trust me, I am tired of the relationship. How will a girl that I am spending on and even she’s not giving me anything because she’s a fresh graduate, no job, no income? But I don’t need her money, just love from her. And mind you, she’s in her mid-20s. Please, my purpose of ranting is I know how I can overcome this love. I want to forget about her and move on with my life. I really want to stop loving her. I am tired of her nonchalant attitude. Please, I need help. I want to leave.
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