So the gist is, there is this new guy that moved close to my estate. To cut the story short, we ended up talking to each other and we went out on a date last weekend. It was perfect. He’s a 29-year-old man from Nnewi, Anambra — that’s my place exactly too. He’s a big introvert (my type of man, sit your ass at home). He seems really hardworking and genuine. I went to his house for the first time this week and truthfully, I fell in love with him. His smile, his height — I watched him work and Lord, he’s so funny. In fact, I fell in love and hit my head on the ground join. Me that said I won’t cook for a man until he’s my husband, the way I flew into the kitchen to make egusi for him ehn. He didn’t ask — he kept saying we can eat out, but I wanted to. I don’t just know how to explain it, but I have never felt like this with any other man. But now, this is my main issue: I think he’s still in love with his ex. We talked about exes. I told him about mine, but when it was his turn, he wasn’t really coming forward.
He didn’t say much about his ex. He said he has moved on, but he feels like his ex did him dirty. From our conversation, I just have this feeling in my gut that he is still not over her. I really want him. I can already picture my life with him. But I don’t want to pay for the sins of another woman. I talked to my friends about this and they said I should leave him if I already feel like this, but it’s not that simple. Please, I need your advice. What do I do?
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