I’m typing this with so much pain and sadness in my heart. My ex and I have been dating since 2022. Sometime in March 2023, we had a relationship issue that almost led to a breakup, but as a man, I knew what I wanted. I tried to rekindle things and decided to show more love to her, always there for her at any time. She was still hurting, and I always begged her to let things go. We kept seeing each other till December 2023, so I started noticing she was no longer giving me attention and all the love and care. I had to ask if she still loved me or if she was already seeing another person. She said, “Yeah, she’s still in love with me and not seeing anyone,” assuring me things will completely work out between us. We continued our love and are still seeing each other till Feb 1, 2024. I started noticing her with a guy on her IG page. I was shocked and couldn’t sleep all through the night. I had to wake up the next day as early as 6 am to go to her house and ask her what was going on.
She said it was just a friend, and they had been talking since we were dating, but they just started talking more, and there’s nothing between them. I asked for reassurance from her if she was sure, and she said, “Yeah,” and we continued gisting and all. Feb 14 is supposed to be our anniversary. She even gave me her wish list, which I was planning to get. So on Feb 8, 2024, we were texting, and I didn’t just know when I asked her if she was talking to anyone because I couldn’t still feel our full connection back. She said, “Yes,” that she’s already in a new relationship. I felt weak to my bone and was begging her so much and crying that we literally saw Feb 8, and you didn’t mention anything until I asked now. As a lover man, I’m because this was the girl I was planning to spend the rest of my life with. I woke up as early as 5 am Feb 12, 2024, drove to her house, and waited till 7 am before I knocked on her door, and she allowed me in. I couldn’t believe my eyes; I saw a man’s shoes in her house.
Not 1, but 4. I was so weak and didn’t know when I landed on the floor and cried so hard and begged her, “What’s happening, we still saw on the 8th, and you told me nothing.” She said they started talking stage Dec 2023, and as I can see, they are already in a relationship. I started crying again while still on the floor begging. I felt disappointed because she didn’t tell me until I asked, and we were still seeing each other. I begged so hard; that I saw my dreams just vanish. Begged and begged her to reconsider this since she claimed it was just Jan they started. She said I should get out of her house. I cried home, feeling a deep pain in my soul because she was still giving me assurance and leading me on until I found out. I’m in deep pain, and I don’t think I can recover because I love her so much that I can drop my life for her. I’m stuck and can’t move on. I feel deceived while I’m still putting my whole in the relationship.
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