I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost four years. I tolerated all his flirting with other girls because I felt men would surely cheat. Not until this guy stooped so low and asked his best friend’s girlfriend to have sex with him. I forgave him when I found out. I forgave this guy so many times, not until he moved to my younger sister, who is just 16 years old, and he was making advances towards her. Then he moved to her friend when my sister didn’t agree. He did the same things with my friends, even told me to bring one of my friends that he had a crush on for a threesome. I tried to endure this nonsense for so long because I was scared of being single, and I didn’t want to have several body counts. Finally, I broke up with him with so much pain in my heart. I gave this guy my life, my money, my time, my prayers, and my love, and even stopped talking to a lot of my friends because most didn’t approve of our relationship. After four years of commitment, I was cheated on and betrayed.
I endured so much for this guy. I even ignored so many rich guys, and I worked so hard, and God blessed me. I gave him the money I made, and I became broke and started again and still loved and stayed with him. I wasn’t a sex person, but because of him, I changed. I started watching porn and started giving him sex at least as much as he wants. Not like I’m not beautiful and sexy. I have everything a man wishes for. I’m educated, smart, prayerful, hardworking, respectful, beautiful, so sexy, classy, and very kind in nature. Yes, I have my flaws, but it’s not so bad to be treated like this. Four years of my life gone with nothing but betrayal, and now people are saying I left him because he is broke, someone that when we started dating, I was feeding both of us. Anyway, I owe no one any explanation. I’m hurt deeply, and I have lost trust in relationships. I’m too scared to start dating again because all men are the same.
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