I started dating my ex around the end of March 2021. The relationship was good, even her friends were jealous of us. I catered for her, cared for her, loved her, and had an impact on her career and life. We didn’t have issues like that if we did, we would sort it out before the next day because we understood each other very well. Fast forward to November 22 last year, she told me her parents were disturbing her for marriage, and the pressure was too much. They had been pressuring her to bring her fiancé at the age of 23. When she told me, I said I was not ready. We had to break up that day, but we couldn’t control ourselves, so we came back the next day, and everything was going well. So, in mid-January, I started suspecting her.
She didn’t care like before, she had changed. I started to worry and study the situation. My mind was telling me she was seeing someone else. She started muting me on WhatsApp, and I noticed. Yesterday, a friend of mine sent me a video of her in a car with a guy. My friend didn’t know I was the one, he accused me of buying a car and not telling him. I had to play along and give him the scope to send the video. As I saw the video, I almost went crazy. I texted her, and she told me they were not dating yet, but she was finding the right time to end the relationship with me. I felt heartbroken and betrayed. I acted up that night, but I couldn’t control myself. I begged her, told her to let me finish my education, that I would marry her.
But she had already moved on, she didn’t even care, it showed from the way she talked. I cried, and couldn’t sleep or eat. I haven’t eaten up until now because I didn’t have an appetite. I begged her to give me two years to finish school, but she just told me to let it go. God, girls are wicked. I didn’t see it coming. Even now, I’m crying while typing this. She’s gone already because she never cheated when we were together. God, I just keep expecting her at my doorstep, thinking she will come to see me, bro. I can’t control myself. I’m just here with my life. She doesn’t see a future with me. I love this girl so much. I have to pour it out, maybe it will help me heal from this trauma because I’m traumatized now. Or if you guys can advise me on how I can get her back, I will be happy and will be in the comment section. Thanks.
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