I’m a student, and I recently got a boyfriend this year. It’s my first relationship, and we’ve been dating for a while. It took a long while before I agreed to date him, about 5 months plus. Throughout that period, he kept telling me that I should try him first and stop doubting and that dating him could be one of the best decisions I’ll make. He said he’s the perfect guy and he’ll treat me right. Now, in the relationship, mind you, he has money. For the few months we’ve been dating, he has never sent me money ever. There was a time he said he would give me money after I came back from seeing him. Then when I reminded him, he said he sent me N3k before, and that had my transport inside it. I couldn’t believe it; it was like a film.
This boy can stay without texting me for a whole day, and whenever I go to see him, he’s always trying to hit on me, but I haven’t let him, even though I’ve given him head anytime he asks. Now, what he does is complain about not having money to my hearing or use jokes like “poor man” this and that, maybe to make me not ask or something, but he’s always going out and buying expensive loud. I’m a lover girl, and I’m also a giver. I always give to the people I love; that’s how I love, so I know that if someone loves you, they would just naturally want to give what they can to you. But I’m the one who has to ask, and even when I ask, it’s not given to me. I don’t know what love I’m even getting from him. I don’t know what to do. Please advise.
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