Hey fam, I am a registered nurse, and I’m just 21 years old. I am absolutely confused at this point right now, and I need your advice and help. I am actually in a relationship with two guys, one here and the other abroad. I haven’t seen either of them yet, but we’re going fine and smoothly, and I love both of them, to be honest. My problem now is that my family wants me to get married, and my uncle gave my number to a friend of his who wants to get married. He is just averagely doing well for himself, though, but guess what, guys? He is 40 plus years. You can imagine. Mind you, I’m 21, but I don’t look it; I look 25 upwards because I’m thick.
I don’t want to make a wrong decision at my early age. I have so many dreams I wish to accomplish, and this marriage thing—I’m just praying low-key for things to go as God has planned my life. I know I’m not too young to get married, but 40 plus? You guys should advise me, please. What should I do? I have dreams of traveling out of this country to help myself and my family. I don’t want my children and loved ones to struggle anymore. Honestly, guys, I will be in the comment section, fam.
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