I’m 26 and I am 3 years older than my boyfriend but before you judge me, listen to my story first. I met my boyfriend in 200 level and we’ve been dating for 4 years now. When we started I didn’t love him at first and I asked him his age as normal, but he lied, as I got to find out a few months down the line. I confronted him and he knelt down to apologize and told me that he knew I wouldn’t accept him if he told me his real age. I forgave him and I told him I have a condition though. I told him the condition was that if I get to the age that I feel I could get married and he isn’t ready, I would break up with him. He accepted and already I’ve started loving him. But ever since I turned 25 and now 26 I’ve been wanting to leave him as he isn’t ready, but I can’t.
He keeps telling me he loves me and I told him I can’t keep waiting for him, but part of me doesn’t want to leave him as I do not want to hurt his feelings cause I know he genuinely loves me. This is not about money ‘cause he doesn’t spend on me, but whenever he has, he does as much as he can to see that I feel good. And I don’t seem to be okay with anybody except him ‘cause he is my first and anytime I want to get close to anyone else I just can’t bring myself to do it. Please, what do I do? ‘Cause I scare anyone interested in me away cause I’m in a relationship. Please, I need your advice.
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