I’m 21, and my man is in his late 20s. We’ve been dating for about nine months, and we’ve made out a lot during this time. He thinks we’re going to have sex soon, probably in a few months, but I really don’t think I want to anymore. I’ve always wanted to wait till marriage, but when we started the relationship, he made it clear he had no intention to wait till then, and I didn’t say anything against that because we have a lot of sexual chemistry. So, I kind of convinced myself that there’s nothing so bad in having sex before marriage. Now I’ve had a rethink. Is there any way I can make a change regarding this, or do I just end it? We make a lot of sex-related jokes as well, and I really want to end it altogether with the making out too. Is that still possible?
