I have been dating this man for about 2 years plus now. He is an entrepreneur and doing well for himself. At first, this man gave me so much attention that I fell in love with him, but he has this nonchalant attitude. He doesn’t care about what I think, and he doesn’t give me money. Note: I don’t even ask him for money every time. No matter how small I ask him, he’ll tell me one excuse or the other, and I’m very sure he has money. He prefers to give someone else that asks him for help. The highest amount he has given me is N15k, and that was for my birthday. He is not a kind man at all. He doesn’t care about anything that concerns me. He brags about his capabilities to do things, but he has never done one for me. He takes decisions alone, and he also lies a lot. Today, he is all over me; tomorrow, everything has changed again.
If I ask him, he’ll tell me he’s going through something at that moment. Please note that I’m also doing well for myself, and I hardly ask men for money unless I’ve exhausted all my options. He is a Christian, and I’m a Muslim. At first, he said he doesn’t care about religion and that we can both practice what we want. Recently, he started telling me to follow him to church. I frowned at it, and he stopped talking about it. Now this man is telling me to get pregnant for him. He hasn’t met my parents oo. I told him if he wanted me to get pregnant, we should do our introduction. He said no. He said it’s either I convert to Christianity and we do a proper wedding or I get pregnant for us to get married since I don’t want to convert. Since then, I have been trying to get pregnant so we can settle down.
Anytime I tell him I’m on my period, he’ll say, “Bad news.” Another thing I noticed is I don’t see reasonable men approaching me. The ones I want are either married or using me as a side girlfriend. I’m so tired of my love life. My mum keeps telling me to go get married. Ninety percent of my friends are married with kids. I don’t know what to do. Do you think I’m desperate? Is something wrong with me? Please give me sincere advice.
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