Lately, I have been cohabiting with my boyfriend and I have got to see some sides I don’t think I can handle, but this particular one made me sick. So, we have been managing and all that. He never gave me a dime before, but it’s cool and I am doing the understanding girlfriend. So, this particular evening I decided to just get something for us to eat since he had nothing and I had a little change with me. We both calculated what we would get before leaving the house, and I had the exact amount. Only for us to get to the store and he wanted to buy something else, wanting to leave the important stuff we needed that day. So I scolded him and told him, “Babe, this is for that ma.” He responded saying, “Who are you talking to like that?” I apologized immediately, even though I saw nothing wrong in what I said. Fast forward two or three days after, I made a meal with borrowed money because we had nothing and I had to borrow so we could at least eat. But he came back saying he never sent me to borrow money to make a meal for him.
I begged him to eat, but he refused until the food got spoiled. Is it being fair? Am I really in the right relationship? Or did I say anything wrong? Please enlighten me, because I guess this is what I will be seeing if I eventually get married to this person. He can stay weeks without talking to me, and I will be the one begging and crying. He said I am stubborn, and I have really tried my best adjusting for him. I had to block every male friend I had because of him, just to make him trust me. And I am genuinely tired.
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