I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 9 months now and we’ve been having misunderstandings back to back lately. To him, I’m overreacting, overthinking, and insecure. At first, he said I should message him on Snap, that he’s more often on Snap than WhatsApp (someone that was not even using Snap when we started dating). He said I should stop posting him on Snap, which he was cool with before, and now he doesn’t want “people to know his girlfriend.” He doesn’t post me except it’s on my birthday with caption “happy birthday babe.” I’m just tired ’cause anytime I try to talk things out, he will say I’m overreacting and overthinking, asking me questions that require yes or no answers. Last week I called him but he didn’t pick and later he told me to text him first to know if he’s available to pick the call. When I said, when did all this one start, that why should I be asking for permission before calling him, he said it isn’t permission.
Like this guy is so manipulative that I believe everything that comes out of his mouth. Funny how this guy doesn’t see this as a problem. He doesn’t call me unless I call and now I should ask for permission before calling him. Yesterday night I sent some pictures I want us to recreate to him since we planned to see next week (we sch in different uni). He told me he’s going to recreate those pictures with me if I promise to just keep them on my phone and not post. That broke me. I don’t even know if I’m dating myself ’cause he’s a very nice guy aside all I’ve mentioned.
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