I saw a post two days ago about a lady saying she doesn’t enjoy sex, and I saw a lot of comments saying it’s because she’s used to masturbating. My situation is similar, but I’ve never masturbated before. I got disvirgined late last year, and I will say I never enjoyed sex. I stopped having sex in February this year. I tried aphrodisiacs, focusing, and putting my mind into it like people say, but I never really enjoyed it. I only pretended to enjoy it to make him feel good. I won’t lie, he’s very good and knows his way around sex, but I never had that feeling that people exaggerate about sex.
I’ve only had sex with one person, so I thought maybe things might change when I meet someone else. I also thought it might be because I just started having sex at 21. He used a vibrator on me twice, but I didn’t feel much and only pretended. However, I do get horny during ovulation and when talking dirty with a man. Yes, I get super horny during those conversations, but I really don’t know why I can’t enjoy the act itself. I’m very much attracted to men, so hopefully, I’ll get to experience better with the next man.
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