I have been dating this guy for years, 7 years. He has cheated on me severally, and I forgave him the last time he cheated. It really broke me, but I love him, so I still forgave him. We lived together for some months, and I tried to rebuild my trust in him. After a few weeks, I started noticing some funny things. He still talks to those ladies he slept with. Whenever I try to confront him, he gets so defensive. He stopped touching me. We no longer have sex. The one time I made him have sex with me, he was so sad about it. Even when I try to touch him, he pushes me away. I’ve been there for him when he had nothing. I supported him with all I had. When I was earning a penny, I still gave everything to him. Only for him to get a good job and have money, that was when he changed. I just found out that he slept with that same girl he promised me heaven and earth not to have anything to do with.
They even talked about her getting pregnant. He said she doesn’t have to worry because he is there for her. The worst part is he doesn’t touch me anymore, but he can go out to sleep with someone else. 💔 I’ve been supportive to him. I’ve always treated him like a man. I had to cut off all the men in my life for him, even the ones that would connect me to opportunities, I had to let them go. Even when I had the opportunity to travel out, I didn’t go because I chose him. I did everything a woman would do for a man. I cleaned for him, I cooked for him, I washed for him, I gave him money on his worst days. Sometimes I just sit and ask God what I did to deserve this. Can’t I be loved too? I just hope I won’t start thinking otherwise because I’m tired already. Life for me is really hard right now. 💔
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