I’m heartbroken and disappointed. I met this guy on TikTok 3months ago; we started getting to know each other and he asked me if I’m single, and I told him yes. I asked him too; he told me he’s single. He said if I see someone that is ready to be in a serious relationship, am I ready to date? I told him if the person is serious. To cut the long story short, we started dating. The first time I went to his house, I had this feeling there is something fishy about this guy; he has been giving me one excuse and another. I visited him again but I noticed he has been acting strange. So I saw a wardrobe inside his room; he turned the opening part of the wardrobe to the wall. I couldn’t figure out what was in the wardrobe, so when he went out I quickly pushed the wardrobe out and I saw baby wears and all. I was disappointed; I pushed the wardrobe back and pretended as if I didn’t see anything. The second day, I took his second phone to check pictures—that is how I saw a pregnancy shoot he did with his wife. I showed him the picture immediately; he said it had been long and the lady is his baby mama.
I asked him why he didn’t tell me about it; he said he can’t tell me everything now—when the time comes he will tell me. I kept quiet because I still wanted to check the second room he locked. He went out the third day; I searched his room for the other room key, I found the key, I opened the room, and I couldn’t believe my eyes. I saw his wife’s shoes, clothes, baby diapers, and a lot including his wedding pictures and frames. I snapped the pictures and hid them on my phone. I locked the room and returned the key back. My boyfriend texted me that he thought I should be going home that night, that he would be traveling very early the following morning. I told him nobody is at my place; he insisted I leave. I didn’t drag anything; I told him to come and drop me at the nearest car park. This guy dropped me without giving me any money for transport and he hasn’t been giving money since I met him; he doesn’t even care where I was going to sleep that night. The second day I sent a VN to him about everything I saw at his house. I also checked his wife’s page on TikTok.
I saw how he proposed to the lady, their introduction and wedding videos, and child dedication videos on the wife page (they are legally married). I screen recorded some of the videos and sent them to him; until now he didn’t reply to me. The most annoying part, this guy always assures me every time he’s going somewhere; he always tells me he is here to stay, always using God’s name to swear. Did he play me, or is he having issues with his marriage? I can’t figure it out. I’m totally drained and stressed. Is it a crime to be a good girl? Don’t I deserve an apology from this guy, that heartless and wicked man? What should I do? Pls advise me.
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