I had this online friend since 2022. We didn’t chat all the time, but whenever we did, we had so much to talk about. Fast forward to early last year—we got closer and eventually met up. He was everything I ever envisioned my man to be. In my head, I thought I had found my husband. He paid attention to the littlest things, talked so much about the future, and took care of me during the time I was with him. However, anytime I left him and went back to my base, he became distant and barely took his calls. I complained a lot, but he never changed. I tried to focus on the good parts for a short time, but I couldn’t ignore the nonchalance.
The confusing part of this whole thing is that he did everything to make it look serious on the outside—introducing me to his friends, taking me to meet his family, even having me supervise his projects—but he was so inconsistent on the inside. True true, money is not everything. Currently, he’s blocked on everything. He’s been cut off for weeks now. I miss him so much, but I know I just had to do it for the sake of my mental health.
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