I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years and it has been going well. I know all his family including his dad because we did small introduction last October. Fast forward to December, I caught him cheating for the first time and he apologised, promised to never do that again. So we made up, but I asked for us to go on a sexual break for 3 months. He agreed and last month the 3 months finally ended. We had sex, I travelled over to his place and I noticed if I was in the sitting room he was in the bedroom, if I was in the bedroom he was in the living room. So I just knew something was wrong. I picked his phone while he was in the bathroom and checked his WhatsApp. That’s how I saw this guy had been cheating on me seriously. I picked the girl’s number, took some screenshots, and sent it to my phone. I just packed my bag and left. At first this gaslighter started saying why would I go through his phone, later on he started apologising. I messaged the girl by sending her our introduction pictures as view once. The girl then called me saying yes, he told her he has a girlfriend but he said we are dating because his sister asked him to please date me since I’m lonely and have no friends, which is a lie.
He also told her he doesn’t like having s€x with me because it feels like a taboo. My head almost burst because it’s a lie. We met when I was in school through a friend. I confronted him, he said he’s only using her for sex and I’m the one he loves. He denied it down to earth that he said all those things. I told my mom, she was very angry and told me to block him. Now his family members are begging me and I just said I’ve heard. He promised to change also, so we’ve started talking again, but now I don’t know how to tell my own family members I’m back with him.
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