I need to know if I’m doing the wrong thing. There’s this girl I just met on social media for a while now, and we’ve been talking and all. She knows I like her. Then I invited her over to my place. She agreed to come over, she even wanted us to go out on a dinner date and movie date when she came. I agreed to that. She said she was going to spend 2 days with me. On her birthday, she told me she wanted a dress. I got it for her from her preferred vendor, even though it was expensive. Then the D-day came, and this girl came to my house. I was doing everything she asked me to do, and got her everything she needed for her to be comfortable.
She said she wanted me to take her out to get some things she’ll need for her stay with me, which was just her soap she didn’t bring. Then I took her to the mall, only to get there and this girl started picking things she’ll never buy with her money: expensive body wear, perfumes, and things she would never be needing. I didn’t complain, I bought her everything she took even though they were expensive. We got home, and the whole gisting I found her attractive, I then told her I wanted the kiss she owed me because we had previously talked about her kissing me when she came and how I am a very touchy guy and hopelessly romantic.
Then this girl all of a sudden started saying things I don’t understand and how she would never kiss or have anything with anyone she’s not comfortable with and she can only be comfortable with a guy she’s dating. I tried to be a good boy and still tried to give her a reason to. How was I going to cope with a girl in my house for two days and not get close to her or even touch her but still yet I’d be spending money? I had to sleep in the living room and leave my room for her because I didn’t want to get attracted to her again. Then next day I had to tell her to leave because I couldn’t cope anymore and didn’t want to look like a pervert. Yes, our date got canceled obviously. Pls, I need to know if I did the right or wrong thing.
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