My boyfriend (now ex) and I have been in a long-distance relationship for seven months now. Everything has been going well. On Valentine’s Day, he spent almost N2m on the gifts he got me. He spoils me with lots of money and gifts, but he has serious insecurity and trust issues. Since we started dating, it has been one argument after another, but we don’t break up. He always thinks I have someone else, but I honestly have no intentions of even speaking with any other guy. I love him so much and wanted our relationship to work because I’m actually tired of going from one failed relationship to another. Fast forward to a few days before my birthday, we had a heated argument, and it was him accusing me of cheating, which I didn’t do! He accused me of going to see someone after I closed from work because he knew my closing time and the time I usually get home from work. That day I was an hour late. He started accusing me of going to see someone else, and it led to a heated argument. I told him to just shut up because he sounded like a clown saying those things.
He immediately took offense and got angry that I called him a clown. A few hours later, I apologized, but he seemed not to be interested in the apology. I gave him space and still dropped some apology notes while staying out of his space. A few days before my birthday, I made a video of me dancing and posted it on my TikTok, which he had told me before he didn’t like me doing. I actually stopped, but I got carried away by the excitement of my birthday and posted it. He messaged me asking why I posted it. I couldn’t say anything and went ahead to take down the videos, but I didn’t let him know I did. Then he kept quiet, and that was the last day I heard from him. My birthday just passed, and not even a happy birthday came from him. He was still following me on all socials and refused to watch my stories because I kept checking! I got nothing from him at all, not even a text. I got so pissed and heartbroken that I blocked him everywhere without saying a word. Did I overreact? I miss him so much and I’m caught between unblocking and texting him to know why he did that, or maybe just moving on.
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