There’s this girl I met in my department, I don’t know how, but I suddenly fell in love with her. I know it’s crazy, but I don’t know what it was, but it just happened. I walked up to a close friend of hers (a guy though) and told him how I felt about the girl, and he said no, I shouldn’t go near her. I didn’t listen, but instead, I pressured him. He didn’t give me the number himself. He called her to where we were at that moment and explained everything to her right in front of me. For some reason, I don’t know why he would tell her right in front of me. She responded and made it clear she’s not interested in anything relationship-wise, so I shouldn’t bother. I told her to just give me her number, which she did, and that was it. Whenever she posts her pictures on WhatsApp, I would screenshot and stare and stare and stare. I wasn’t getting tired of it. Whenever I saw her in my department, my heart would skip. So one day, I replied to one of her statuses and explained how I felt to her, and she said she told me earlier on that she was not interested in all that.
I told her if she gave me a chance, I could change that narrative for her, but she was adamant about it. Because I couldn’t resist her, I went about telling the people I knew about her so they could help me plead with her and see if she’d change her mind or something, but she wouldn’t. I even used some of my close lecturers to get to her, maybe she’d agree out of fear, but still nothing. I guess she got tired of everything and blocked me on all platforms. I felt really pained, but the thing is, I still want her to be mine. I don’t know how to get her off my mind. Her friends have warned me to stay away from her, but I can’t. There’s just something about her that won’t let me stop thinking about her. I think I’m obsessed with her because I haven’t been in a relationship in a long time, just flings. I wish she could just give me a chance in her life. One of my friends was like, “Every time cho cho cho, show workings,” but I’m not trying to buy her love. I’d only spend on her when she becomes mine. What do you suggest I do, guys? I can’t get her off my mind, my head, and my heart.