My boyfriend and I have been together since 2022, but the issue is I am not s£xually attracted to him. We have had sex only about ten times within that period of 2 years due to distance. He went for service, came back, and now I’m in another state for the same reason. At a point, we were together in the same state for more than three months, and believe me, the sex was h0rrible. Every time he lasted less than one minute, which always resulted in serious stomach pains for me. He would even try to continue, but imagine having sex with a soft D.
It’s so sad. I tried to talk to him about it, and he said it was because I wasn’t the one initiating the sex. IMAGINE! Before you judge me, no, I’m not with him for money. The award for the most understanding girlfriend goes to me because things have not been good for him since his father fell sick and di£d three months into the relationship. So, I haven’t enjoyed any girlfriend benefits, but I believe he’s trying his best. I even went online to google remedies and stuff he can use. Do you think I can cope with this in marriage?
Because I introduced him to my mum in 2022, and I know what good sex feels like. I love him, but I lost interest in him sexually, and I find it difficult to have sex with him because it’s another painful round for me. Marriage is a lifetime, though we’re not ready now. Am I too demanding? PS: I think this is why his ex cheated despite him taking care of her.
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