I am typing here today because I am kind of confused. I have been dating this guy for seven years now, from when I was still in Nigeria till I relocated to the US. We were doing fine until everything changed when I started losing interest in the relationship. We broke up because I met someone else who later relocated to the UK and later I came back to my ex. This boy was helping financially when I was in school, but not too much. My school fees and monthly allowances were sponsored by my parents and eldest siblings. At the time I graduated from school, I was working from home where I earned close to N200k every month. He was doing a POS business at that time and all of a sudden he handed the business to me, where I came fully in charge, making money for him. I graduated in 2022. Despite being the one making the money in the relationship and having my own money from my side job, this boy has never for one day given me money. I am the one supporting him, and even his POS business I was also operating. All he does is come to check out the profits at the end of the month and we share the money 50/50.
Yet he keeps claiming to be the man in the relationship and does not want to do something else. I relocated to the US in December, he never contributed any money to my relocation, it was sponsored by me and my family. All this boy keeps telling me is when am I helping him to come over. Shey if person wan come abroad na your personal funds for hand matter if you are ready and if person go help you? His parents are also pleading with me to help him come over to the States. This is a person who is 32 without a job. I even forced him to learn handwork or business, nothing to show for it. He wants to know how much I am receiving weekly here in the States, my ins and outs. This was a person who was even asking me to borrow him N200k two months before I travelled to the US for a business which I did not even know if he really wanted to do. Till today, this boy is still tormenting me with the money I did not give him before I left Nigeria. If not for the blood oath between us, and his family being nice to me despite his ill attitude, I swear to God I do not know what to do anymore.
I am really confused because I feel I have made a terrible mistake in my life being in a blood covenant with a guy I do not love anymore. Too much quarrel every day, and he keeps telling me I broke up with him before and cheated on him, that he does not want to be mocked by friends after seven years in a relationship. My Rantz family, what are your opinions?
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