The guy that likes me is AS, and I’m AS too. I knew what I wanted from the beginning, and I told him I don’t want a relationship because we would just be wasting our time. But this guy is so stubborn; he doesn’t want to give up. We had sex twice last year with more than three months in between, so this year, I cut off the sexual connection because we are not even compatible during sex. Either he injures me or rough-handles me aggressively. I cut off the sexual connection and gave him excuses whenever he asked me to show up, but he would still talk to me every day. At this point, I feel he’s blinded or something because I’m even scared for myself.
I have consistently told him I can’t date an AS. To cut off communication, I stopped talking to him for a month or so, but he still sent some of his friends to beg me. I unblocked him, but from what I’m seeing, I think this guy is dating me in his head. I told him I have a boyfriend last week, and he said he doesn’t mind and that he’ll always be there for me. Then he started calling back to back, which I wasn’t entertaining. Blocking him isn’t working either, and I don’t ever want to appear like I’m taking advantage of him because I’ve several times made my intentions clear. What can I do, please?
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