I found out my so-called husband was cheating on me with a secretary that works around his shop. I tried to reach out to that girl, and she promised me she won’t do anything with him anymore, saying she didn’t know he was married. I forgot about it until she called me a few days later to apologize again. I told her it’s fine. That same week she called to apologize, I decided to check my so-called husband’s phone. Then I saw their chats where they are playing love in the market. I think the girl’s workplace is opposite my so-called husband’s office. What annoyed me the most is that the girl sent him a voice note saying, “I no know you sabi knack like this, who teach you how to knack?”
After reading all their crazy chats, I decided to message that girl again, which I knew I fucked up, only for this girl to start insulting me, saying that I am shameless, that I already have three kids, and I should focus on my business and my kids. I wonder how she knew all this; obviously, the community dog told her. She told me she is also a single mother of a 7-year-old boy. Mind you, I didn’t know her then because she doesn’t use her pictures on her DP. Recently, I was scrolling through TikTok, and her page suddenly appeared on my FYP because I had tried searching for her name and number on TikTok, but there were no results. I checked her TikTok page, and tears just started rolling down my cheeks.
I’m not body-shaming, but this girl looks like an amoeba. That’s when I realized that, for real, my dog has no taste, and he is classless. God, I messaged her on WhatsApp and insulted her to my satisfaction. I promised to drag her online (just an empty threat, though). She called my dog the next morning, crying that I was threatening her. My dog woke up that same morning and told me to call the girl and apologize, and I was so speechless. Men will stain your white, for real. How do you think I should react to this situation? I might even leave him because of this matter. I have had enough of him.
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