I have a problem I have been facing since I became an adult. I don’t know how to react when someone is going through a lot or telling me his or her problems. I feel bad trust me but I just don’t know what to say and it’s causing issues in my relationship. The best I can do is to pat the back and hug. People always say I am the worst person to talk to when they feel bad and I don’t feel good about it. I am also as worried as them but I don’t know what to say. This doesn’t sound like a big problem but it is for me. My boyfriend has said the same thing, same as my friends. Anytime they tell me their problems, they feel I don’t care.
I do care but I just do not know how to voice it out or know what to say. I don’t even know how to share my problem with people. This is a big problem for me, I don’t want the people I love to think I don’t care because I really do. My boyfriend said I am only there for the good times, that hurt me so much because I have been there for him for the past 2 years before he started complaining. I told him this is the kind of person I am. This is me looking for solutions because I really do need help and opinions from you all. I don’t want to dwell on the fact that I am this kind of person, I want to change, this is a big issue for me. ☹️
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