So, I had this sneaky link I was involved with last year, and we lasted till this year until we had issues some months back. He used to be very generous, though I barely asked him for money. I remember he gave me my first N100k ever, when I didn’t even ask; that was last year. So, I’ve been facing some kind of financial challenges this year, and I would sometimes ask him for money, but he would not want to give me, or sometimes he would give me 10% of what I asked for, claiming that he didn’t have it. I know he has because he’s rich, he has two houses and a car. The reason I stopped talking to him was that he called me one day and said he wanted to see me. I asked him if he would give me money jokingly, and he said, “Of course.” I dressed up and went because I wasn’t doing anything at home that day, and I actually needed money, so I knew the visit would help with what I needed the money for.
I got there, and he asked me to sleep over. I agreed, but I didn’t want to have s£x with him because I was no longer attracted to him anymore, so he was quite angry, but we both slept. We woke up the next day, and he asked if I h8ted him. I said no, and we had a little discussion. I told him that I’ve been so stressed of late because I’m facing some financial crises, and men or relationships are the least of my worries. I can’t even get wet for anybody at this point because what I’m going through is just too much for me. I cried and asked if he could help with N20k, but he refused, saying he couldn’t give money to a lady who doesn’t allow him to touch her. That made me cry more because I was helpless. I wondered why he acted like that since we have known each other for over a year and we used to have s£x before, and I felt he liked me.
So, I left his house that day, and I locked our chat so I would never have any reason to chat with him again. I forgot to add that he asked about my younger sister. When I shared my iCloud with my younger sister, somehow, my sister could see our chat, and she didn’t understand, so she texted him. That’s how they got to know each other, and I had to remove my iCloud from my sister’s phone. He asked me about her, saying it’s been a while since he saw her posts. I told him her phone was bad, and he said he was going to send her money to fix it. He asked me to send her account number to him later. But after the issue we had, I left, and when I got home, I found out that my sister had just fixed her phone that day. So, I told my sister that he actually wanted to send her money to fix the phone, but my sister had already posted, and he had viewed her post.
My sister then lied to him that she had used all the cash she had to fix the phone, and he sent her N30k. I was so happy because I needed that money so badly. ast forward to today, I collected my sister’s phone to check something on her Opay app. I noticed she had made her balance invisible, and I wondered why she didn’t want me to see it. So, I checked, and I saw her balance was over N50k. I was so curious how she got the money because, a few days ago, she didn’t have a dime. I checked her transaction history, which I know was wrong, and lo and behold, it was this guy who sent my sister N40k. I saw his name, and I couldn’t even speak. I’m just wondering what kind of relationship they share now for him to be sending my sister money. I couldn’t even ask my sister because I collected her phone for something else.
My sister is just 18, and I swear I don’t want this guy to have an affair with her because I never told her about what I had with him. I haven’t spoken with this guy in months. I even went to check the chat I locked, and I saw that he had wished me a happy birthday and sent me another message, which I wasn’t even aware of. Now, I don’t know if I should text him and ask him not to try anything with my sister or if I should just leave them alone. I’m really broke, nothing has changed since last year, and I’m so sad that I’m still in the same situation. I can’t even do anything to change my family’s situation, so that nobody would take advantage of my sister. Please, I need y’all’s advice.
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