I am in a distant marriage with a man I got married to 2 years ago. Our relationship was basically distant, so I couldn’t get to see the flaws and red flags while dating. He is a very nonchalant person and also a narcissist. Anytime we have a misunderstanding, he goes as long as weeks and days ignoring my chats and tons of calls. Many times, I cried my eyeballs out every night, begging and texting for what could have been resolved with communication. And when he decides to pick up after days, he acts as if nothing was wrong. This has been going on and on, plus I haven’t seen him in the last 2 years of marriage. I learnt the law of detachment, and now I don’t even feel him anymore. I don’t want to talk to him, and he disgusts me a whole lot.
He doesn’t know this because he seems not to see any big deal in his attitude and has never asked me to forgive him or said sorry even when I was hurting so bad. I feel it might even get worse when we start living together. I don’t know what to do. I fear when I start getting attached to him again, he will break me. What should I do? I am a lover girl, and this isn’t what I signed up for.
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